I will try to keep this short. I live in my childhood house with my sister In MD. (no pics sorry) My mom moved to Florida about a year ago and got remarried. Fast forward to yesterday. I get a notice in the mail from Wells Fargo saying our mortgage is going into default and we have 45 days to get out. (well it said we "could" be kicked out in 45 days but apparently they let you live there for about a year before you really get pressured). I call my mom. I have managed all the bills for the house while she was gone except the Mortgage. I tried but since i did not sign the loan i couldn't. I would transfer money to my mom to pay the mortgage. Obviously it turns out she has been taking all of my money and not using it for the mortgage. She now is not returning or answering my calls. I have looked into moving out and am looking at some places in Baltimore this weekend. I live 65 miles from my job so i told my mom when she left i would stay in the house and pay everything for a year or two until she figured out if the marriage thing was what she really wanted. So now i want to move closer to my work and into the city. I am a 25 year old single man. I would like to get out of the suburbs (bel air md) So my question really is do i just move out of the house and tell my mom sorry? I have really no family left. My mom raise us as a single mother. Her family lives in Philly but we have never been close. I know if i move out im basically cutting my mom off. She will tell the family its all my fault and that will be it. So i hesitate to say "eff you mom you stole over 8k from me im out". What would you do NT. Stay try to pay off the 8 missed payments ($9,000) just to be nice to my mom. Or alienate myself completely and basically start my Solo Dolo life.