***Non monogamous relationships***

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Any of my NT brethren currently in or previously experienced non monogamous relationships??

I been discussing the prospect with my girl and i think we both agree it's something that's inevitable at some point down the road. I love her but i think it's unrealistic to expect any one person to completely satisfy your needs over an extended period of time. I mean cheating is super prevalent for a reason...

The way i see things this option removes the guilt of desiring others and removes the need to cheat and deceive. I know some will say i should just move on if i want to **** other people, but being single and playing the field is no where near as exciting a prospect.

Any thoughts?


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Monogamy is not natural.

Monogamy is the result of the development of agriculture, the need for protection from infanticide, the advent of democracy. 

Most people in western society will look down upon a person for partaking in a non-monogamous relationship because it goes against the social norm, but I think people should do what makes them happy.  

With all of that being said, do you. 
 
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Monogamy is not natural.

Monogamy is the result of the development of agriculture, the need for protection from infanticide, the advent of democracy. 

Most people in western society will look down upon a person for partaking in a non-monogamous relationship because it goes against the social norm, but I think people should do what makes them happy.  

With all of that being said, do you. 

Nothing in life is natural.
 
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I mean if thats your thing and shes cool with it then wateva makes u happy u know?

Me personally i cant surf on that wave and to be honest i have no urge to.
I dont want anyone else.

Its a good feeling tbh. Great actually.

But like i said thats me.
 
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Any of my NT brethren currently in or previously experienced non monogamous relationships??

I been discussing the prospect with my girl and i think we both agree it's something that's inevitable at some point down the road
. I love her but i think it's unrealistic to expect any one person to completely satisfy your needs over an extended period of time. I mean cheating is super prevalent for a reason...

The way i see things this option removes the guilt of desiring others and removes the need to cheat and deceive. I know some will say i should just move on if i want to **** other people, but being single and playing the field is no where near as exciting a prospect.

Any thoughts?


Yes you can smash
she already out there
 
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One woman is enough for me. I don't know how these polygamous dudes do it :lol: 3+ wives and I'd want to jump out a window. :lol:
 

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Any of my NT brethren currently in or previously experienced non monogamous relationships??

I been discussing the prospect with my girl and i think we both agree it's something that's inevitable at some point down the road
. I love her but i think it's unrealistic to expect any one person to completely satisfy your needs over an extended period of time. I mean cheating is super prevalent for a reason...

The way i see things this option removes the guilt of desiring others and removes the need to cheat and deceive. I know some will say i should just move on if i want to **** other people, but being single and playing the field is no where near as exciting a prospect.

Any thoughts?


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she already out there
Pretty much, just finessed him into thinking it was partly his idea.

And y'all gotta stop picking and choosing what's "natural" from certain parts of history to fit a narrative. On that token, taking a boy lover would be "natural" . Sexuality morphs through history. I do agree just do what feels right to you, but be prepared for the consequences.
 
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Nah. Never thought about it, never will. But every couple is different, so if that works for you then go for it.
 
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It's all fun and games until she run into that one dude who gives her the LD better than you, relationship downhill after that
 

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It's all fun and games until she run into that one dude who gives her the LD better than you, relationship downhill after that
Scary sight. Dude I work with smashing this chick that's been married 18 years. Out of 18 years all she ever had was boring missionary. He smashed, ate the box/butt, made her squirt, gave her her first or gas money etc. Long story short she divorcing dude after 18 YEARS. Co worker married also, told her he wasn't leaving his wife but baby girl deaf. She moved and got a apt by our job so he can be close at all times :lol:. Got his phone cut off, she showed up to the job with a brand new iPhone so she can talk to him. Husband called dude and she went off on her husband like he did something wrong. Dude just wanted to know what was going on not knowing his ***** long gone for real. Please your lady fellas.
 
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It's all fun and games until she run into that one dude who gives her the LD better than you, relationship downhill after that
Scary sight. Dude I work with smashing this chick that's been married 18 years. Out of 18 years all she ever had was boring missionary. He smashed, ate the box/butt, made her squirt, gave her her first or gas money etc. Long story short she divorcing dude after 18 YEARS. Co worker married also, told her he wasn't leaving his wife but baby girl deaf. She moved and got a apt by our job so he can be close at all times :lol:. Got his phone cut off, she showed up to the job with a brand new iPhone so she can talk to him. Husband called dude and she went off on her husband like he did something wrong. Dude just wanted to know what was going on not knowing his ***** long gone for real. Please your lady fellas.
:rofl: And that's exactly how it happens. Husband sittin at the crib w/ a brew watchin sports wondering why his old lady aint home yet. Meanwhile she gettin taken to pleasuretown by the coworker
 
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:rofl: And that's exactly how it happens. Husband sittin at the crib w/ a brew watchin sports wondering why his old lady aint home yet. Meanwhile she gettin taken to pleasuretown by the coworker
**** crazy, my sister do hair so she be telling me Hella stories about that kinda ****. Remind me of that one nter from way back that said he was in a long term relationship but don't eat box. Talking bout she know he don't like it and cool with it [emoji]128533[/emoji]. Yea that's what u think, she cool with u not doing it but somebody else is.
 
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As long as you don't mind her getting piped down and her face showered with another man's juice....then is fair game....enjoy.
 

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If i dont love the chick im all for it.

But if theres emotions and love invested, im not sharin whats mine, and im a loyal type vato also.
 
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Do you, OP.

I'll give you my opinion and tell you to move on to another girl. You're better off being single but make sure you have a few prospects lined up before doing so. I don't think you want to find out she's been smashing dudes already you barely open to the idea of an open relationship.
 
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