the thread about nothing...

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People couldn’t handle likes going away for not even a day. If anything it showed they shouldn’t do it
 
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Keisha know what it is, and she’s a part of it. Atlanta was barely shut down during the shut down. City been wide open since. It’s all about the money and she knows it.
 

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she sounds like she is using you to make herself feel better.
if she's a coworker, def don't go there. it's a terrible mistake.
Yeah coworkers are a terrible idea, I only considered it because of the structure of our volunteer org. She'd only remain my coworker for another year or so, unless she switches to a management position when she finishes her Master's. Our only work interactions are a couple hours on Discord or Zoom every Monday, that's it.

I kind of suspected for some time now that this might’ve just been some messed up fantasy of hers or something, given the polar opposite signals she was giving me. She has a Bachelor’s in psychology and is about halfway through her Master’s in clinical psychology so surely she can’t be so oblivious.
 
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Yeah coworkers are a terrible idea, I only considered it because of the structure of our volunteer org. She'd only remain my coworker for another year or so, unless she switches to a management position when she finishes her Master's. Our only work interactions are a couple hours on Discord or Zoom every Monday, that's it.

I kind of suspected for some time now that this might’ve just been some messed up fantasy of hers or something, given the polar opposite signals she was giving me. She has a Bachelor’s in psychology and is about halfway through her Master’s in clinical psychology so surely she can’t be so oblivious.
Don't date intellectuals and artists, thank me later :rofl:
Just hang out with regular women, they're more intersting, less fuss and strategies
Because it is not something sane if you know your crush is probably manipulating you at some point
Without being naive you must feel comfortable with the women you like, or it means she's nocive for you
Plus intellectuals mean nothing to me, a lot of women are very clever and not intellectuals...
 
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nepotism is built into society but I feel like we keep seeing the most crazy examples of it

**** looks wild tbh and a lot of people just brushing it off it seems
 
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Sometimes I drink energy drinks , thinking it’s going to somehow speed up my day

then I remember that’s not how it works
It gives energy but not necessary for doing anything constructive (like for coffee and tea), you can drink a lot, and put a lot of efforts in doing nothing useful :rofl:

At least you feel awake before the energy quits your body and then you're even more tired :smh:

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Don't date intellectuals and artists, thank me later :rofl:
Just hang out with regular women, they're more intersting, less fuss and strategies
Because it is not something sane if you know your crush is probably manipulating you at some point
Without being naive you must feel comfortable with the women you like, or it means she's nocive for you
Plus intellectuals mean nothing to me, a lot of women are very clever and not intellectuals...
No to artists for sure but I prefer a more 'intellectual' woman. The reason I immediately got along so well with Amy in the first place, before we knew what eachother looked like, was because we quickly found common ground through our shared interest in psychology and medicine. Not that there’s anything wrong with more regular women but the more you have in common, the better.

I do want to keep Amy as a friend though. Putting aside all the sex talk, she has helped me out a lot. I can either just tell her straight up how I feel about those flirtatious sex conversations or I could find a way to accept it without frustration by thinking of it in the same realm as watching porn, just something to get off to.
 
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No to artists for sure but I prefer a more 'intellectual' woman. The reason I immediately got along so well with Amy in the first place, before we knew what eachother looked like, was because we quickly found common ground through our shared interest in psychology and medicine. Not that there’s anything wrong with more regular women but the more you have in common, the better.

I do want to keep Amy as a friend though. Putting aside all the sex talk, she has helped me out a lot. I can either just tell her straight up how I feel about those flirtatious sex conversations or I could find a way to accept it without frustration by thinking of it in the same realm as watching porn, just something to get off to.
But it's different from porn, porn can motivate or frustrate, but no emotions, while even if you convince yourself of something, if you keep dealing with the person, your want of sex could become some sort of love, even more dangerous, no ? Not an expert, not really gifted with people in general and here with women to find the good way to do things, younger was too frontal, now I am not enough lol
 

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But it's different from porn, porn can motivate or frustrate, but no emotions, while even if you convince yourself of something, if you keep dealing with the person, your want of sex could become some sort of love, even more dangerous, no ? Not an expert, not really gifted with people in general and here with women to find the good way to do things, younger was too frontal, now I am not enough lol
I'm generally an emotional flatline in the first place, I've always found it very easy to compartmentalize. I don't think that'll be necessary though. I absolutely wanted to date her/smash but my frustration came from the very mixed signals that were confusing me. Now I have clear-cut confirmation from her that she's not down for experimenting with a guy so there's no confusion left to frustrate me.
 
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No to artists for sure but I prefer a more 'intellectual' woman. The reason I immediately got along so well with Amy in the first place, before we knew what eachother looked like, was because we quickly found common ground through our shared interest in psychology and medicine. Not that there’s anything wrong with more regular women but the more you have in common, the better.

I do want to keep Amy as a friend though. Putting aside all the sex talk, she has helped me out a lot. I can either just tell her straight up how I feel about those flirtatious sex conversations or I could find a way to accept it without frustration by thinking of it in the same realm as watching porn, just something to get off to.

If it were me I would have a conversation along the lines of " Hey ...bla blah blah, let's stop this flirting thing, I do not feel comfortable and I really dig talking with you, but the flirting and all that bs we talk just feels awkward and childish" If she hits you with the "Oh you're misinterpreting stuff blah blah" trying to make look like a fool, just drop it she ain't worth it, I hate girls that pretend they don't do **** with their nun facade ... in Colombia we call them "Mojigatas".
 
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I would hook my kids up with kicks to keep, but I ain't risking my career to backdoor them stockpiles of shoes with my name written all over it. They gotta earn the position like I did if they want those privileges, **** playing that childish game.
 

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If it were me I would have a conversation along the lines of " Hey ...bla blah blah, let's stop this flirting thing, I do not feel comfortable and I really dig talking with you, but the flirting and all that bs we talk just feels awkward and childish" If she hits you with the "Oh you're misinterpreting stuff blah blah" trying to make look like a fool, just drop it she ain't worth it, I hate girls that pretend they don't do **** with their nun facade ... in Colombia we call them "Mojigatas".
That'd work too. She wouldn't try to act oblivious, I remember I did explicitly tell her on 2 occasions that if she kept going she'd drive my fantasies wild and she questioned if that was a bad thing. Now that I think about it, maybe she thinks she's helping my treatment or something (my hormone illness is why hormones come up so much).
 
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If it were me I would have a conversation along the lines of " Hey ...bla blah blah, let's stop this flirting thing, I do not feel comfortable and I really dig talking with you, but the flirting and all that bs we talk just feels awkward and childish" If she hits you with the "Oh you're misinterpreting stuff blah blah" trying to make look like a fool, just drop it she ain't worth it, I hate girls that pretend they don't do **** with their nun facade ... in Colombia we call them "Mojigatas".
It reminds me of a woman I work with, I'm working with her since 2015, this year, as we were laughing, her, 2 another ones and myself, she felt enough confident to remind me something, or to try to remind me something I have no memories :lol:

She told me back in 2008 I seemed interested by her, but then at the time she has told me she had a boyfriend so I gave up.

As it was quite possible because she's attractive, and because I didn't want to tell her she was misinterpreting as I think she's not, I said to her in front of her and the other ones something like :

" I have no memories about it, but I do believe you, it is possible, you're a beautiful lady " :lol:

When she told me more about this trial of mine from the past I understood and told her why I have forgotten, she was asking me if I have forgotten because I was trying to seduce a lot of women, and I said no, I said if I try to seduce you, and you gave me a no answer, it was painful, so there was no reason to me then to remember it :lol:

That's funny because since 2015 I thought she was familiar to me, and she took 6 years to tell me this :rofl:

I couldn't even pretend it was false as she's gorgeous to me

Glad I acted well at the time not insisting or something :lol:
 
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That'd work too. She wouldn't try to act oblivious, I remember I did explicitly tell her on 2 occasions that if she kept going she'd drive my fantasies wild and she questioned if that was a bad thing. Now that I think about it, maybe she thinks she's helping my treatment or something (my hormone illness is why hormones come up so much).
She ain't helping **** if you're giving it so much thought my man.

Just stop it you got better things to worry atm I imagine.

There's still Covid around lol
 
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